Welcome to As Diana O Sees It
The Passionate and Pragmatic Way of Life (selected writings)
In April 2023, I embarked on a journey to share my personal experiences, challenges, and philosophical musings through this blog. As a coach working with global nomads, individuals in recovery, and executives seeking guidance, I realized the importance of creating a separate space to explore the themes that shape our lives.
My own story is one of struggle and resilience. Nearly 20 years ago, living in the Swiss Alps, I found myself depressed, overwhelmed, and unhealthy, trapped in a codependent and unhappy marriage. I felt a profound lack of belonging. After a spiritual awakening, I quit drinking and learned that I was codependent and possibly an alcoholic. Initially unwilling to admit my alcoholism, I attempted to go it alone, only to repeat some of my old mistakes.
Although things seemed to improve at first, I slipped back into depression, fortunately without returning to alcohol use. On the brink of taking my own life, I finally decided to do "the work." I needed professional trauma work to get rid of shame in order to actually work the steps. Also, the pastor with whom I did my 5th step, told me I had too much passion and not enough pragmatism. I realized that I lacked the essential skills necessary to heal and feel better, such as self-care, healthy habits and routines, time management, social skills, emotion and stress management, goal setting, assertiveness, effective decision making, and self-awareness. I worked with many coaches.
Through my writing, I aim to share the lessons I've learned on this journey of self-discovery and personal growth. "As Diana O Sees It" is a nod to the classic AA book "As Bill Sees It: The AA Way of Life," a source of comfort and inspiration for many. In the same spirit, I offer a fresh perspective on the art of living passionately and pragmatically. Having passion is great, and I think it’s important to feel it, but we need to put into practice what we believe.
Leaders who live "passionately" aren't just impulsive, they also:
Focus on interests and hobbies
Pursue ambitious goals
Embrace new experiences
Build connections
Live in the moment
Express themselves creatively
Cultivate curiosity and continuous learning
Nurture positive emotions
Take risks
Leaders who live "pragmatically" aren't just practical, they also:
Solve problems
Demonstrate flexibility
Make effective decisions
Set goals
Embrace change
Adapt to change very well
Seek efficient solutions
Learn from diverse experiences and perspectives
Balance emotion and logic
Utilize resourcefulness
The As Diana O Sees It blog will send you a gem to ponder every Thursday - a short personal story or lesson to inspire a pragmatic and passionate life.
How do you blend pragmatism and passion in your leadership journey? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!
Until next Thursday!
With love,
